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The Future of Reputation, Gossip, Rumor, and Privacy on the Internet

With the intense growth of the online social media world, news headlines on television, radio, print and online have raised concerns about one’s reputation online and how that can tarnish a reputation in the so-called “real” world.  Do a simple search online and you’ll discover headlines such as “Protecting Your Online Reputation: 4 Things You Need to Know,” on Mashable.com, “How to protect your Online Reputation,” on Forbes.com and “Protecting Your Online Identity and Reputation,” by Kidshealth.org.  These all share a common theme and concern rising among online users, the fear of a reputation gone bad in an instant.  In the book The Future of Reputation, Gossip, Rumor and Privacy on the Internet by Daniel J. Solove, he shares how “the free flow of information on the internet can make us less free.”

Solove covers case after case, where seemingly minor situations have turned into major worldwide online scandals.  In these cases, the situations have nearly destroyed most of the reputations at stake.  Solove shares an example in the book of a girl in South Korea who while on the subway allowed her dog to go to the bathroom in the middle of the subway train, and she didn’t clean it up afterward.  Solove goes on to share how this one situation spiraled out of control because someone watching what was happening on the train had a cell phone camera, snapped a picture and put it online, not long after people around the world began sharing their disgust with her actions or lack thereof, she soon became known as the “dog poop girl.”  The book goes on to discuss how this one situation tarnished her reputation and how she became a visible figure in her community and literally around the world.  This was just one case, the book tells of many.

It also discusses how the popularity of Social Networks and Blogs has dramatically transformed the landscape of who can be a “journalist” and the impacts the online world has had on younger generations like teenagers and why the web can literally trap you into a “web” if you’re not careful.  The book poses the question, “Why Should We Be Able to Control Our Reputations?”  Solove offers interesting insight, he writes, “despite the fact we talk about reputation as earned and the product of our behavior and character, it is something given to us by others in the community.”  Solove goes on to write, “Reputation is a core component of our identity.”

The idea that reputation is core to our identity is so crucial because as Solove explains in the book, our identities and character can be questioned and hindered in an instant by what is posted online about us and about who we are and what we do.  In fact, the big problem is that the information posted about us, may NOT be entirely true.  As Solove discovered, that is often the case, he quotes a journalist in the book who writes, “they (the facts on the web) can be incomplete, out of context, misleading or simply wrong.”  In this type of situation Solove shares that in contrast to decades earlier when rumors or gossip would spread among a village, the online world does not have the familiarity with you or your family to squash such harsh naysayers from further spreading non-truths.

Solove goes on to speak of the “Digital Scarlet Letter,” Bullying and the Vices and Virtues of Internet shaming.  The interesting argument Solove makes is the idea that there is no due process in the online world.  By way of the web, if you are accused of something inherently wrong or something deemed by the social norms to be wrong, then you are automatically branded with a “digital scarlet letter.”  In the book, Solove explains that “internet shaming falls outside the control of the legal system,” he goes on to write in an excerpt from Nussbaum, “In shaming, the state does not simply mete out punishment through its own established institutions.  It invites the public to punish the offender.”

Solove saw this as an opportunity to investigate how as a culture we can approach the idea of online shaming. Solove proposes in his chapter The Role of Law, that to look ahead to the answer we must also look to our past.  Solove describes the pressures of living in a time when “yellow journalism” and “sensational journalism,” was at its peak.  Solove looks back to the late 1800’s when two men of law, one an attorney and the other later became a Supreme Court Justice, had questions about how gossip and yellow journalism was being used in society at the time.  Solove shares these two men observed that, “privacy invasions caused ‘mental pain and distress,’ and ‘injury to the feelings.’”  These two men of law proposed in the 1890’s that privacy law could “evolve to protect privacy,” this has become a crucial argument for Solove who believes there’s a way for us to continue to share online while protecting our reputations.

Different types of approaches to protect privacy are then considered in the book.  Solove describes two different approaches the Libertarian approach and the Authoritarian approach, both are examined and then also considered is whether the answer as Solove explains is somewhere in the middle of the two approaches.  The author then determines this is where the answer lies; somewhere in the middle of those two approaches.  Solove’s answer to the issue plaguing current generations as it pertains to reputation on the web is a law that “must function as a credible threat yet lawsuits must be a last resort,” a vague but interesting vision of the future of privacy law.  How we redefine the law in terms of current day Solove explains takes time and effort to address each situation and to insure that no online threat is left out of a restructured law.

This leaves us to determine who will be the right people with the forward thinking to help craft such a policy.  No doubt the Internet is still somewhat unchartered territory when it comes to the Federal Communications Commission and how it regulates the online world.  In fact, it may be another commission or agency/group all together who attacks the issue with the goal to find a viable policy as quickly as possible.  Solove offers incredible insight into why a restructured law is necessary and why someone must step up to act now.  Indeed, our reputations online can change in an instant by means of new media so we must find a way to regulate in a new way.

So this is the story I’ve been covering most of this week on the job.  Pretty interesting, I mean it’s not like she was poor, she was making $60,000 as an Asst. Principal at a School in the Kyrene School District according to court documents I acquired the other day.  Still, after reading through the paperwork, she lost her two kids two weeks ago and has had to go through a pretty brutal divorce from an ex-MLB player.

I sympathize with her a bit, it sounds like she might have some real issues.  As a mom, I can understand how hard it must be to lose custody of your two kids.

While working this story t

here were a lot of people who sympathized with her, they said we should pay educators more, and they wouldn’t have to do things like this.  I don’t know who I blame, if anyone, it’s an unfortunate circumstance.

Very popular… on YouTube…thoughts? too late?

So I have to admit I was the first to question whether this was legit..

But, after seeing the babies today and talking to the doctor at Banner Desert Sam in Mesa, Arizona, I am a believer!

The doc says it’s very rare, but for this Arizona family, who had two sets of twins and just had a set of triplets, it runs in the family and is connected to genetics.  He also told me they would know if she was taking fertility drugs, it would be in her file created by her home physician in Kingman, Arizona.

The babies are adorable.  All born at 29 weeks, between 2 and 3 pounds each.  All of them are still in NICU and will be for some time.  Amazingly I am 7 1/2 months pregnant, and the child in my womb is already bigger than these little gals.

In total, the family has 6 girls and 1 boy.

This is a story I produced and reported.. A Phoenix area mom discovered something that worked for her and then started a business that now  helps support the family.  Great example of a mom who really can do it all. :)

SAHM starts up business

I’ve got to tell you… not only does the old saying, “I feel like a broken record,” hit home with me today, but it just throttled me into a crazy funk that was hard to get out of.. Maybe it was the 114 degree heat in Phoenix today, or all the running around we did in the car.. and the fact that my daughter didn’t nap.  And anytime I asked my daughter for something she pretended like I didn’t exist.

For those who don’t have kids yet, the nap is a time of rest and rejuvination.  The R&R captured in just a few hours can revive the soul .. and get you ready for when they wake up again.

A Scottsdale women’s clothing store is advertising it’s search for the next hot mom spokesmodel for their company.  Since the movie, “Americna Pie” the term has nearly become a part of pop culture, most moms know exactly what it means, and many are flattered by the thought of even being considered a part of that group.  Others as I found online are not as pleased with the word and have even said they find the word offensive.

Maybe I’m desensitized, working in the media and all, but I’ve heard worse and even thought there are worse things to be worried about.  At the end of the day, I’m a mom, work out, work hard and so if someone calls me a MILF, I think it’s okay, after all, I’m prego and so if someone were to say that to me right now, that would be a really BIG compliment, right? it’s all fun and games, or is it?? :)

I’ve been watching the coverage the last week and a half .. as well as watched all the coverage from many different news operations, it’s been quite overwhelming, from the initial report, to the tickets selling on eBay for the memorial service..

I have to admit, I’ve never been a huge fan of Michael Jackson, I do like “some” of his music, but my goodness, was it over the top the last several days.  And rarely did the media discuss his molestation accusations, I know it’s tough to do, but when an “icon” dies, the good comes to light, and so does the bad and the ugly.  It’s tough.  It would be tough for MJ’s kids, family and fans, but it’s reality.  It’s just like with OJ Simpson, anytime I hear his name, I also think about the accusations he faced in his ex-wife’s murder.. of course, he was found innocent, but those thoughts always cross your mind.

Maybe I’m being too cynical, or maybe it’s part of how I’m wired?.. not sure.. but as a member of the media, a wife, a mother.. I can’t help but think otherwise.

Big Belly

Okay, so I know I’m only 7 months pregnant, but come on!  I’ve had at least a handful of people yesterday, more today, and likely even more tomorrow, ask how far along I am, and then say wow, you’ve got a couple months to go!  One person asked if I was having twins!  I don’t remember getting asked this often with my daughter, and yesterday’s doctor’s visit, I gained 7 pounds in a month (plenty if you ask me).  And I’m sure no one means this,  but it fuels the hormones.  I get frustrated and antsy about what I eat (what I really want is a big cheeseburger), when really it should be a fun, joyful time right?  It’s the only time in my life I’ll get to eat what I want and not have to pay for it right away, and of course I have the excuse, “I’m pregnant, it’s what I’m craving.”

So now, I’m so focused on my big belly, that instead of thinking of how the baby is growing into this beautiful human being, I think of how big I’ll get in the next two months…(scary).  Even scarier, I think is how I might look on television at work, they say the TV adds about 10 pounds, well, that’s about right, and you’ve got to watch where all that extra weight lands.

The positive to take away?  I guess that I’m healthy right?  and so is the baby, that’s really all that matters, even though deep down inside, I’m fuming every time someone says, “Wow, that baby sure is growing!”

So I took the trash out, and my two year old daughter who’s recent infatuation with closing doors got the best of me.  I dump the trash outside and then, I hear the door slam shut.  I thought to myself, “I hope the door wasn’t locked,” then I try to open it, and I was right, the door was locked, and as I walked around to the other doors, I can see that every door is locked, I return to the side door, my daughter is there, saying, “Mami, door locked, keys?!”  I say yes, sweetheart please go get mami’s keys so we can open the door.

Just as I say that, I hear my neighbor say, “I’ve been there before!”  And instead of feeling like I made a terrible mistake, I feel better knowing I’m not alone. :)

The best part of this story, is not that I learned my lesson, or that my daughter learned hers.  The best part is when I saw here through a window yelling, “keys, keys!” I laughed, because it wasn’t my keys she had in her hand, it was her multi-colored plastic play keys!  I thought this is a moment to remember!

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